Selena Gomez’s fiancé, Benny Blanco, recently shared valuable relationship insights while appearing on Jay Shetty’s On Purpose podcast, offering advice on building a strong and lasting connection.
During the discussion, the music producer revealed that, before meeting Selena, he worked with his therapist to list the qualities he wanted in a future partner and co-parent. He emphasized that trust, emotional support, and attentiveness are crucial for a successful relationship.
“I know what she needs… she wants to talk before bed, hear ‘I love you,’ and receive a text if I’m running late,” Benny shared, highlighting the importance of reassurance, especially in long-distance relationships.
He also addressed a common misconception among men, criticizing the notion that women are overly complex. “A woman will tell you exactly what she needs,” he explained, stressing that being a supportive partner is about truly listening.
Benny added that men shouldn’t expect praise for simply paying attention to their partners’ needs—it should be a natural part of loving and respecting them.
Reflecting on his bond with the Emilia Pérez actress, Benny described their relationship as “perfect,” acknowledging that while he often wants to fix things for Selena, he’s learned that strong women carry a lot on their shoulders.
“Sometimes, they just need to vent, and that’s OK. You just listen,” he concluded.
